小熊感悟

记得去年10月中旬把孩子从花鸟市场上。

一堆小熊依偎在一起冻的瑟瑟发抖。鼠贩在一边不停的推荐我们多买几只,我觉得它们很可怜,那么小,刚来到世上没多久就忍受饥寒交迫的痛苦。

鼠贩看到我们迟迟不走,就用手把小熊们都打醒,小熊们就都欢快的站起来,好像以为是喂食时间。选了一只靠近右边玻璃的小熊。就这样把孩子抱回了家。

起初孩子神经很紧张,不安,焦躁,会在笼子上串下跳,会咬笼子。也有很多个夜晚,吵到休息的同学,不过同学们都很宽容。在慢慢的了解和学习中,发现越是显得弱小无理的小动物,你在相处中你越能从他们的身上获得感悟,对事也好,对人也好。

越是看起来脆弱的生命,也越容易产生怜悯。帮小熊准备好,玩具,笼子,进口的食物,专用小水壶后,小熊也渐渐熟悉新的环境开始慢慢的安定下来。她其实只是一个敏感缺乏安全感的孩子,起初可能是犹豫就环境中竞争劣势,导致总是吃不饱,睡不暖,对环境很缺乏安全感。忽然换到新的环境,应有的紧张感,不安感促使她做出一些可能饲养她的主人也不好理解的事情,比如咬笼子,疯狂的藏匿食物。

如今,小熊入住已有5个多月,她很乖也很讨喜。每次去帮她收笼子,加食物,换水,她都习惯性的把小脑袋探出来,看看我。有时候收笼子的间隙用亲自给她喂食的时候,她也会轻轻的叼起食物,仿佛怕咬到我的手一样。感觉只要精心照顾,其实也会有不经意的回报。不仅仅是饲养途中带来的快乐,更是某些精神层面上的感悟。

比如理解与被理解。看似不被理解的时候,其实人不应该表现过于急躁和心存否定感,当别人不理解你的时候,你更多的不是漫无边际的证明自己有多正确,而是应该去倾听他人的意见,去仔细思考不被理解的根源。 之于理解,理解是需要时间,是需要用心的,其中不乏需要有耐心且带有倾听的态度。

弱小之于表面的强大。看似很强大的我们,似乎也应该学会一种生存之道。弱小的生灵反而更能珍惜幸福生活的来之不易,并且知足的去享受,不是奢求甚至去逾越界限的索取。而现今生活中,社会高速发展的背景下,太多的人不珍惜眼前的幸福而总是会以他人真实的幸福或者幸福的表象去否定自己本来有的幸福。所谓的追求一生幸福生活的路途中,最后回看,才发现自己曾经真的幸福过,不过领悟之时可能为时已晚吧。

这种感觉就好像病人之于健康的人。抑或是说有一种当局者迷的感觉。

珍惜眼前的幸福,人活在积极阳光的心绪里,工作也好,生活也好,压力也会转移,不仅如此反而会更有力量。

谢谢小熊。

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